You can easily adjust the discussion settings of your blog from the WordPress admin area > Settings > Discussion.
From there you can adjust the default article settings, the comment settings, the avatar settings, etc.
If you want to see a video tutorial on how to adjust the discussion settings in WordPress, click Play Video on the screen below.
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